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November 25, 2020

Feeling extra thankful this year ♥ 
We drafted a new member to our team. Baby Sura is expected to join us this spring.
Our “Lilliput”, our rainbow baby, is on the way ♥

the Sura family goes to NYC

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November 24, 2020

I have been asking Jim if we can go to the city for months now. When everything started to shut down in the spring I thought it could be nice to drive there like an early Sunday morning since there would be no people outside but he was never into it. Now I guess he finally caved:)
On Saturday we left Stamford around 8 am or so, took us about 45-50 min. We drove along the west side and parked down in Battery Park. Super easy.
We walked from the parking garage to the dog park across the street where Thor played with his friends (and enemies haha) every day when we lived there. They have built a new bridge over the street there (wasn’t super safe there before) so it looks quite different there, I don’t think T realized where he was because of that. But once we entered the big dog park he seemed to know exactly. Of course he tried to be the alpha over all the big dogs there haha.
We didn’t stay long, just a few minutes. We walked over to our old apartment building. The door was open and our old doorman recognized us so we chatted a little with him before we walked down to Wagner Park. Dogs are normally not allowed in that park but it was so early in the morning plus others took their dogs there so we didn’t really care, if we tell T not to pee on places he listens.
We came to what used to be my favorite area in the whole city (behind our old apartment). The last time I was walking around down there they had torn the whole thing down and I was super sad (check this post from June 2019), but I guess they rebuilt it. I was so happy to see that, I really do love that place!
We continued our walk up along the water. The Rockefeller Park was full of people, lots of groups of kids with a coach: karate, soccer practice, you name it. Very busy. We left the parks and walked in on Chamber Street and soon came to where I spent most of my time the first few years in the city – old DNA/now Gibney. During all the years of living in the city, this building had scaffoldings outside, it is just so weird to see the actual building now haha. Dance studios are closed this year but it was still nice to walk by and feel the dance vibe:)
We walked over to the Brooklyn Bridge. I wanted to walk further up because there weren’t much people and the weather was nice but J wasn’t into it, so we saw it from afar.
Walked passed Broadway and to the WTC area. They have blocked off the entire park, you can only go in the park if you pay (looked like if you paid for the museum you also get access to the park). So dumb! It is a huge and very nice park but now there’s just fences all around it. Oh well.
Walked down to our old neighborhood again and T ran straight up to the entrance of the small-dogs dog park hahah, he for sure remembered that:) But we wanted to continue. I bought us bagels and coffee at the little store across from our old apartment and we sat down on one for the benches in the pathway near the dog park (because there’s basically no people there). Aaaahh, that’s my absolute favorite thing to do in the city; sit in the sun on a bench with a bagel and a coffee, life can not get better any than that:)
It was about noon when we had finished eating, so then we walked across the street, picked up our car and drove on the west side back home, took about 1 hour 10 minutes. Thor was so tired. He’s only 8lbs of fluff but he sure can walk a lot. He did not want “daddy taxi” at all, just wanted to walk on his own the whole time which I saw on my smart watch was 5 miles. He tried to sleep in the car and succeeded a little but the roads here suck so bad that he constantly woke up. So once we were home, both boys fell asleep on the couch.
I seriously had the best day in a very long time! This year really makes you appreciate the good moments a bit extra. I’m so happy we decided to do this little mini trip!

So happy to see my favorite place rebuilt! old Dance New Amsterdam / now: Gibney Dance
he really wanted to go to the dog park:)

Hello MONDAY!

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November 23, 2020

Hello Monday! For whatever unknown reason, last night I was just so excited to go to bed so that I could wake up today and start a new week. Maybe it’s because we had an awesome weekend that put me in such a good mood, I don’t know. But sure, this morning I got up, showered, ate a big bowl of oatmeal and just felt so energized and excited that it is Monday. I have nothing fun planned today, only a vet appointment this afternoon, but we don’t really need a reason for waking up happy, right?

This weekend was, like I said, awesome! We drove to NYC on Saturday and we went for a quick hike on Sunday. I’ll tell you all about it in the next post, cause right now I’m gonna go through and maybe edit photos for ya:) 

Have a wonderful day! 

we are staying home

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November 16, 2020

Good Morning! Hope you had a wonderful weekend. We haven’t really done anything. Went to Greenwich for an oil change on Saturday and while we were waiting we sat down at an outdoor seating for fries and a drink in the sun. Other than that, we’ve been home. We have enjoyed each others company and snuggled our pup, pretty nice and easy weekend. A lot colder outside yesterday too so not very pleasant to be outside. 

The world is getting worse again so the best thing to do is to stay home. On Friday I got an automatic phone call from the city mayor saying that we should only go outside if we absolutely have to – for us that means taking the dog out. Bars and restaurants have to stop serving at 10pm and we have a suggested curfew between 10pm and 5am. I don’t think we will go into another full lockdown, the country can’t afford it, but it kinda feels like it now.
I’ve been fine being at home this year, but now it almost feels like our home has turned into a prison. All of us around the world is experiencing the same thing, but that doesn’t make it easier for any of us. My husband and I have spent on average probably 22 hours a day, every day,  at home since March (or actually since February for me). We take our dog for park adventures when the weather allows, we have some errands to do during weekends, but other than that we spend time just us and the pup inside our apartment. Yes, we did travel for two days in July which I greatly appreciated but it also gave me major anxiety.

I think we can all agree that this is a sucky year. I think a lot of people have kept their positivity up and made the best of this situation, but at this point we are all tired. But even if we are tired we still need to remember that we have to keep doing our part to stop the spread of this dumb virus. No one knows when this will end, it will take time, even if there’s a vaccine coming out in a few months. It is the virus that decides, all it wants to do is to continue its party and hang out with as many people as possible. But all of us needs to try to stop this massive deadly party. Best way to do so is to stay home if one can, wear a mask when outside, frequently wipe surfaces with disinfect, keep distance to others and wash those damn hands. It’s not hard. The quicker people do their part the quicker the world can move on. 

11/11

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November 11, 2020

One year ago, 11/11, our dear nephew Becket More, barely 8 months old, passed away. Long story shorter, when he was still in the womb he had a stroke which he survived. Fast forward to November 6 last year, he went in for surgery, due to that he had started to develop fluid in his brain. Surgery seemed to have been successful…until two days later. They had to perform a second surgery and found that something had gone wrong during the first operation (or something, I don’t know details). There was nothing they could do to save him. Legally they could not pull the plug until 48 hours later, so he died sometime after midnight on November 11. 
This was very tough for us all to handle. Jim was in Minnesota at a college football game that was just about to start when his mom called with the news (on Nov 9). He of course called me. I have never heard him this sad before. I was outside with Thor and as I walked into the lobby I started to cry. I could hear the excited fans in the background when I spoke to J, neither of us really said that much, we were both just in shock I think. I can’t even begin to imagine how his parents feel, still. They are in Cleveland now to visit his grave.

Becket was the happiest baby/person I’ve ever met. Always smiling, happy to just observe what was going on around him. I think we all felt that there was something special about him. All kids are special, but there was something extra about him. When we took him out in the stroller, everyone we met smiled back at him, he made everyone happy. It felt like he had an old soul and maybe his purpose in this life was to make people smile and feel at peace. I believe he succeeded with his life goal and was ready to leave this given body, leave this earth, he was enlightened. He was not taken from us for no reason, or at least that’s what I want to believe.
We only met him once, a couple of weeks before he passed, but like I said, there was something special about him. He will forever be in our hearts ♥