the Sura family goes to NYC

November 24, 2020

I have been asking Jim if we can go to the city for months now. When everything started to shut down in the spring I thought it could be nice to drive there like an early Sunday morning since there would be no people outside but he was never into it. Now I guess he finally caved:)
On Saturday we left Stamford around 8 am or so, took us about 45-50 min. We drove along the west side and parked down in Battery Park. Super easy.
We walked from the parking garage to the dog park across the street where Thor played with his friends (and enemies haha) every day when we lived there. They have built a new bridge over the street there (wasn’t super safe there before) so it looks quite different there, I don’t think T realized where he was because of that. But once we entered the big dog park he seemed to know exactly. Of course he tried to be the alpha over all the big dogs there haha.
We didn’t stay long, just a few minutes. We walked over to our old apartment building. The door was open and our old doorman recognized us so we chatted a little with him before we walked down to Wagner Park. Dogs are normally not allowed in that park but it was so early in the morning plus others took their dogs there so we didn’t really care, if we tell T not to pee on places he listens.
We came to what used to be my favorite area in the whole city (behind our old apartment). The last time I was walking around down there they had torn the whole thing down and I was super sad (check this post from June 2019), but I guess they rebuilt it. I was so happy to see that, I really do love that place!
We continued our walk up along the water. The Rockefeller Park was full of people, lots of groups of kids with a coach: karate, soccer practice, you name it. Very busy. We left the parks and walked in on Chamber Street and soon came to where I spent most of my time the first few years in the city – old DNA/now Gibney. During all the years of living in the city, this building had scaffoldings outside, it is just so weird to see the actual building now haha. Dance studios are closed this year but it was still nice to walk by and feel the dance vibe:)
We walked over to the Brooklyn Bridge. I wanted to walk further up because there weren’t much people and the weather was nice but J wasn’t into it, so we saw it from afar.
Walked passed Broadway and to the WTC area. They have blocked off the entire park, you can only go in the park if you pay (looked like if you paid for the museum you also get access to the park). So dumb! It is a huge and very nice park but now there’s just fences all around it. Oh well.
Walked down to our old neighborhood again and T ran straight up to the entrance of the small-dogs dog park hahah, he for sure remembered that:) But we wanted to continue. I bought us bagels and coffee at the little store across from our old apartment and we sat down on one for the benches in the pathway near the dog park (because there’s basically no people there). Aaaahh, that’s my absolute favorite thing to do in the city; sit in the sun on a bench with a bagel and a coffee, life can not get better any than that:)
It was about noon when we had finished eating, so then we walked across the street, picked up our car and drove on the west side back home, took about 1 hour 10 minutes. Thor was so tired. He’s only 8lbs of fluff but he sure can walk a lot. He did not want “daddy taxi” at all, just wanted to walk on his own the whole time which I saw on my smart watch was 5 miles. He tried to sleep in the car and succeeded a little but the roads here suck so bad that he constantly woke up. So once we were home, both boys fell asleep on the couch.
I seriously had the best day in a very long time! This year really makes you appreciate the good moments a bit extra. I’m so happy we decided to do this little mini trip!

So happy to see my favorite place rebuilt! old Dance New Amsterdam / now: Gibney Dance
he really wanted to go to the dog park:)

we are staying home

November 16, 2020

Good Morning! Hope you had a wonderful weekend. We haven’t really done anything. Went to Greenwich for an oil change on Saturday and while we were waiting we sat down at an outdoor seating for fries and a drink in the sun. Other than that, we’ve been home. We have enjoyed each others company and snuggled our pup, pretty nice and easy weekend. A lot colder outside yesterday too so not very pleasant to be outside. 

The world is getting worse again so the best thing to do is to stay home. On Friday I got an automatic phone call from the city mayor saying that we should only go outside if we absolutely have to – for us that means taking the dog out. Bars and restaurants have to stop serving at 10pm and we have a suggested curfew between 10pm and 5am. I don’t think we will go into another full lockdown, the country can’t afford it, but it kinda feels like it now.
I’ve been fine being at home this year, but now it almost feels like our home has turned into a prison. All of us around the world is experiencing the same thing, but that doesn’t make it easier for any of us. My husband and I have spent on average probably 22 hours a day, every day,  at home since March (or actually since February for me). We take our dog for park adventures when the weather allows, we have some errands to do during weekends, but other than that we spend time just us and the pup inside our apartment. Yes, we did travel for two days in July which I greatly appreciated but it also gave me major anxiety.

I think we can all agree that this is a sucky year. I think a lot of people have kept their positivity up and made the best of this situation, but at this point we are all tired. But even if we are tired we still need to remember that we have to keep doing our part to stop the spread of this dumb virus. No one knows when this will end, it will take time, even if there’s a vaccine coming out in a few months. It is the virus that decides, all it wants to do is to continue its party and hang out with as many people as possible. But all of us needs to try to stop this massive deadly party. Best way to do so is to stay home if one can, wear a mask when outside, frequently wipe surfaces with disinfect, keep distance to others and wash those damn hands. It’s not hard. The quicker people do their part the quicker the world can move on. 

back to summer for a weekend

November 9, 2020

Good Morning you beautiful people! How are you doing? I feel amazing! Congestion and a runny nose but other than that I feel great. This weekend we went back to summer and I love it. Temperatures of around 22°c and blue sky, how wonderful! Took Thor out in a t-shirt and the sun was so nice and warm, felt way higher than 22 degrees. Today they say will be the last warm day of the year (same temp as the weekend) so I’m gonna try to spend as much time as I can outside today. 

This weekend was more or less about shopping or spending time outside🙈 On Saturday morning we drove to Mianus park but the parking lot was full so we couldn’t go hiking. Instead we drove to a small but cute park nearby. We let Thor off leash and he had so much fun.
We dropped Mr Fluff off at home and went to costco and we might have broken our personal record on crap to buy hahaha. I had to reorganize all the cabinets when we came home in order to fit it all and some still need to go upstairs to our storage:)
In the evening we watched my favorite movie, Leon the Professional. I’ve seen it so many times I’ve lost count, haha. 

So nice to sit outside in November!

We wanted to spend Sunday on Manhattan, but after seeing a lot of footage of people celebrating out on the street practicing no social distancing, we decided not to. An Election doesn’t change a Pandemic. We are in this together, we have to stop this virus together, each and everyone of us has to do our part. Celebrate all you want but please remember that we are not done with this chapter yet. 

Instead of driving to NYC we spent some time at Target. Probably not much better, but at least we went early before everyone else decided to go there. We have a big list of things we need and since we had to return the dog costume that was too small for Thor anyway, we decided to go there. Crossed off some things, but probably have to order some stuff on amazon today as well. Just boring things like garbage bags, detergent etc. Everything weirdly always runs out at the same time. If we have to go into some sort of lockdown again (you never know) I think it’s good to start buying things that we would need for the next few months.
When J was watching a terrible Bears game, I went to our terrace to do my daily practice. The sun was gone already so I had to put more clothes on but still nice. I love doing my yoga outside. 

Halloween

November 3, 2020

Thor as the Mickey Mouse Wizard in Disney’s Fantasia

How are you guys doing? Did you enjoy the extra hour of sleep this weekend? I’m feeling really great. Lots of energy and feeling productive:)
However, I am so sick and tired of this election now, I can’t wait til it’s over tomorrow! It’s one thing if media wants to puke campaign stuff all over you for a few weeks before the election, but here in America it starts a year, or rather two years before. This whole year has been about the damn election and I’m sick of it. I’ve been avoiding social media the past few weeks cause not only do people post about it and share articles with false info, the apps are filled with reminders. When J took T out this morning he had seen a line going from the church next door to us (voting station there) and all the way to downtown, people will probably stand in line for over two hours. Insane. Why the heck did they not vote before? My husband voted by mail weeks ago, super easy (I can’t vote since I’m not a citizen).

Ok enough about that.

We had no good ideas for what to dress Thor as for Halloween this year. Our building has a competition for the pets and we wanted to join. I ordered a kinda boring costume just few days before, it arrived on time but it was waayy too small (Thor is a tiny dog but it still didn’t fit). So I came up with something in the very very last minute. I put Thor in one of my long sleeves and put J’s Disney hat on him. I’m quite proud of the pictures I took, and also proud of the photoshop edit I did:) This was obviously not a costume T could walk around in, so he had to wear some of his other shirts during the day. Our building had a grab-n-go of treats in the lobby – to avoid trick or treaters coming to peoples doors – this is not the year for any kind of holiday or event celebration, we can all wait one year.
I bought a headband witch hat a few weeks ago. Felt silly to dress up, but this is the one time of year when I like to have fun with makeup, so even if we were just staying home I “dressed up” (only from the neck up  though haha). J was wearing his Svengoolie t-shirt. In the afternoon we watched a favorite movie of mine, “High Spirits”. That movie is so bad that it’s good. I must have watched that movie like 5 times a year as a kid hahah.
Looking on social media I can definitely say that the majority of humans was dressed as the tiger king (like why? that documentary is old by now) and the majority of dogs was dressed as ghosts. At least we picked something creative for T this year.

On Sunday we enjoyed sleeping in and then we walked to the diner next door and picked up some waffles for breakfast. J watched football most of the day while I was housewifing; did some laundry, cleaned the apt, hand-dished (ya, I made that word up), baked an apple pie and cooked us dinner. Also took a quick snoozer in front of the boring football game at one point:) Pretty easy weekend but that fit us well. 

And speaking of nothing, how cool that it was full moon on Halloween/All Saints Day. Also cool that October had a full moon twice, that’s rare. 

Seriously, he’s too damn cute!Both J’s phone and mine always want to create albums called
“cat” when there’s pictures of Thor🤣 So he was my cat on Saturday
I really miss Swedish candy, but boring american candy is ok on Halloween

SoNo Mall

October 29, 2020

This weekend J and I decided to drive to Norwalk and check out the new SoNo Mall. Malls are dying, just like shopping stores in general cause everyone is shopping online these days, so I’m not sure why they felt like building a new one, but it looked nice, seemed pretty big and promising. But there was like nothing there. Half of the building was parking space and inside the mall was mostly just empty space in between stores, the hallways of the mall I mean. But they had some stores that has been closing down in the Stamford mall (everything is dying in our city, both before and during corona). I ended up buying a cozy winter sweater and some basics at HM and two pairs of pants at Zara. The rest of the stores barely had anything in them, like Nordstrom, there was like five pieces of clothing in each corner of this enormous space. The Apple store on the other hand had multiple security guards outside the entrance checking peoples temperature and the line to go in was getting bigger and bigger by the second. The whole mall was kinda empty of people except the apple store. I guess there’s some new phone out now or something.
After a couple of hours we decided to drive down the street and go eat at Colony Pizza. There is one in Stamford and we really like it. Luckily not many people inside and we could sit alone in one corner. Restaurants have got strict rules, costumers have to keep their mask on until the food comes, for example. The pizza was sooo good. After eating we drove another few blocks down and found a super cute area with lots of restaurants with outdoor seating, small shops and art galleries. Last time we explored Norwalk we weren’t that impressed, we didn’t really understand why people talked about it so much, but now when we found this street we understood more. It started to rain so we didn’t stay long but now we know for the future:)

Sidewalk was used for restaurants and their outdoor seating
so they had blocked off for pedestrians to safely walk on the street

When we came home we went for a long walk with Mr Fluff