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April 1

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How’s everyone doing? Climbing on walls yet?
We are doing fine. I still enjoy being home🤸🏼‍♀️
Five weeks down of…who knows how many…
I’m trying to find some positive things in all this. Like, it’s quite outside, way less traffic, everyone’s nice (at a distance of course) and I get to snuggle my puppy a lot💙🐾 I also get to be around my husband all day every day – even if he is working more than ever right now.
It’s the little things, I’m trying to enjoy this time even if it’s hard for us all. I hope you are doing ok and I wish you all a wonderful day!

Ruff days

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March 30, 2020

Ruff Days

Every day feels like something else these days. It can be Friday or Tuesday or Dogday or Barulbaday or Smuschyday, it doesn’t matter, every day is the same (and please don’t ask me what those days are, I made them up). Or, ok, the weekends are still different since my husband and I can enjoy coffee together instead of in front of our computers in the morning. But J still checks the news all weekend and keeps himself updated about everything going on in the world, because he has to. 

Fifth week now of isolation and distancing. We are not crawling on the walls yet, but after a weekend of heavy rain and a grumpy puppy, it is definitely harder. J has been nice and been taking T out all weekend so I haven’t actually left the apartment since Friday. I was out for a quick potty with T this morning, felt nice to get some fresh air, but the dog area that is part of our building was covered in poop, not fun at all. I don’t understand, how hard is it to pick up after your dog? 

So what did we do this weekend? I actually don’t remember hahah. We watched a movie, did yoga, cooked food, played with Thor and all this toys, I cleaned the apartment, played pc games.

Jim and I did yoga together

Maybe because we didn’t do anything and didn’t even go outside this weekend, it does feels a little bit more like a Monday today. Last night I tried to make myself some sort of ‘schedule’. It’s easy to just have days fly by and do all those things on the ToDo lists whenever you feel like it…and when you’re just at home there’s a chance you don’t feel like doing them haha. And if we have to stay at home for another month, I think it’s a good idea to have a more structured day to day living.
J works 10-12 hours or so every day so I have to adjust some of the things on my ToDo so I’m not in the way (like, no vacuuming and not load/unload dishwasher when he’s working cause he’s on the phone making deals and whatnot). Normally I would just do something on my list whenever I can do them, but now I have to adjust, so a “schedule” might help. I’m excited to test it out this week:) 

Scrambled eggs for breakfast today

Go out and smell the roses, but then…Stay at Home, damn it

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March 27, 2020

Good Morning! How’s isolation life? We are doing pretty good. Mr Grumpy isn’t too happy about the whole social distancing thing but at least he gets to go for long walks and he can snuggle us basically all day if he wants to. I wish we could tell our dogs what is going on in the world right now and that they would understand us.

Most parks are still open which is great, we should all enjoy the outside as much as we can, soak up as much vitamins as possible.
Yesterday after my sister sent a snapchat of her walk by the ocean I felt that maybe I should go for a long walk myself down to the water here. I searched on google maps to see how long it says it takes to walk to the beach park we sometimes drive to. About an hour it said, so not that bad. But, then I saw that it said it is currently closed until after Sunday and my guess is that it will keep being closed after that. That’s a park that a lot of huge families have bbq’s whenever it’s nice weather so I guess the city decided to close it down to avoid big gatherings (I also think that’s the park they have dedicated for testings). Bummer, I’m craving some time by the ocean. 

We have to stay at least 6 feet apart from others, which people actually do here, everyone is crossing the street if they can when meeting someone else out walking, and if that is not safe then people are walking on the very edge of the sidewalks to avoid each other. We don’t say hi to neighbors or other dog owners and their dogs, we don’t interact with anyone. I never ever touch the elevator buttons with my hands, instead I wear a jacket and use my elbow and I only go in and out of the building using the doors that opens away from me so that I can use the side or back of my body to push. Right when we come in after taking Thor out, we take jackets off and wash our hands (I always sing Britney Spears “Oops I did it again” which should be enough time to wash hands properly) before we do anything else. Door handles, light switches, counters and sleeves of our jackets are wiped off regularly. We really do try to be careful. If (or rather when) we hear that someone in our building is sick, then we plan on never leaving the apartment and teach Thor to do his business on our terrace. Super disgusting but that’s if we really have to.

The virus is spreading like crazy here in America now and people die like flies. We are ordered to stay at home but I don’t think everyone is following that. Plus, you can walk around with the virus for 2-14 days or even up to 24 days I heard back in January, so there will for sure be a lot more people getting sick over the next weeks.
For some reason they don’t even test people in Sweden unless they are really sick and need emergency care. From everything I read and hear about Sweden, to me it sounds like my country is in some sort of denial and that scares me, I have a lot of people I care about over there, of all ages. In a way I think it’s smart to not test everyone cause well then tests will run out and hospitals will be over crowded. Everyone doesn’t have to know that they have the virus, but everyone should just assume they probably do or probably will. So if the country doesn’t want to test everyone, fine, but then they should at least order everyone to stay at home. I keep hearing of business running like normal, people still go to fitness classes and I see pictures of people hanging out at cafes and playgrounds. Since they don’t do many tests, the overall number will stay the same and people will think that the country is doing fine…but it’s not. No country is doing fine. 

We should not be scared of corona, unless we are at risk. We shouldn’t worry about dying, that sort of worry creates chaos among people. But we should care about it, we should stay updated about it, we should wash our damn hands and cover our mouths when we cough and we should stay at home and practice social distancing because there are many people at risk and we care about them!

If you can and are allowed to, go for a walk and enjoy the outside, it’s good for us. But other than that, Stay at Home!

one month at home

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March 26, 2020

One month of distancing and isolating🏡
Not because I have the virus, but because I did not want to get it and then accidentally give it to someone at risk (you can after all carry it around for 2-14 days or longer without knowing you have it). And my husband has been working from home for almost three weeks now.
We live in between retirement homes, a hospital and lots of other practices, so for 31 days we wanted to keep our distance and try to be smart ahead of time.
We are Not running out of toilet paper🧻 (not even close, I dont understand why people are freaking out about that) and as far as we know, we don’t have the virus but we are Staying at Home and we are washing our hands

dance online

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March 24, 2020

Isabella Boylston and James Whiteside aka The Cindies
from American Ballet Theater was on Live with Kelly & Ryan this morning

Weird times. The dance world is now online only. Ballet, Modern, kids dance, Yoga and Pilates classes are streaming online both on paid sites and live on instagram. It’s a great opportunity for all of us to stay active and you should check it out.
But now, lets talk about the artists for a second.

Many businesses are struggling right now, some will probably have to close down, many people will lose their jobs and it will be tough during and after all this. Artists like dancers that was already struggling, maybe juggling 3-4 jobs to get around will get hit hard by this.
Being a dancer is tough, always.
Not only do you not get paid for a lot of the work you do – I have been paid in things like promised exposure (they always say this and you never ever get it), bags of chips or checks with discounts for eye wear which you can not pay your rent with – you now also have to compete with everyone on social media. These days, everyone is a dancer, everyone is a yogi, everyone is a photographer etc. The better you are at marketing yourself online the higher paid jobs. It doesn’t matter if you really know what you are doing or not, if you have a large following then companies will pay you to continue and those who have dedicated their entire lives to for example the art of dance who does not have a following or who does not fake it to make it will continue to struggle to pay rent. Sad but true. And now with the coronavirus and everyone staying at home you’d hope that the artists could get space to shine and earn some extra cash through online classes, but…
I have seen so many ‘influencers’ who has posted fitness videos, yoga sequences, pilates workouts, ballet inspired moves at home or danced on tiktok to get their followers to move while at home. Hear me right now, Yes, it is great that they get others to move, but, instead of all these who does not have fitness as their main income should, in my opinion, stay away from offering free fitness videos and instead stick to what they are good at and then mention their personal trainers, yoga teachers, ballet teachers, pilates instructors or the studios they normally take class at, send all their followers to those who actually taught them how to do it and then those people can show how to do things.
Not only do teachers and PTs get to show their hard work and maybe earn some cash (or at least get that exposure so they can have a chance after all this is done), they can also show the proper way of doing things so that everyone doesn’t have to get injured while they are at home, cause unfortunately I have seen way too many influencers and such over the years showing things that isn’t correct or they don’t explain how to do the exercises they are showing and if you are perhaps a teenager who look up to all these fashionistas, funny youtubers and what not, then you believe whatever they say.
* I want to be clear, I have nothing against influencers, youtubers and people working online, they work really hard and are obviously talented in something and have gained a following for whatever they are good at which is awesome. What I’m saying is that if they have a studio they go to and teachers they learn from, they should give a shout-out to them instead of taking the credit themselves. 

This is the time to appreciate the artists. While we stay at home we watch movies, we listen to music, we look at the paintings on our walls, we get inspired by cool images online and we enjoy dance whether it’s on instagram, youtube or in movies and tv-shows or by dancing on our own. In times of crisis, everyone turns to art, always. Please show your favorite artist some extra love. 

I’ve checked out The Cindies Ballet Class in the kitchen a few times, above is screenshot from March 18
They are great, go check them out

I don’t know how it is in other countries, but here in America
they now log in from home to host programs since we are ordered to keep a safe distance from each other.
I read that the police in NYC is now giving out fines if they see any gatherings happening,
parks are open but everyone need to keep a distance of 6 feet apart
(unless of course it’s like husband and wife or parent and kid)